Erosophia Podcast #15: No fap & the Phallus-y of Sexual Addiction


In this (very late) episode of the Erosophia Podcast, Jason, William, and Joia, discuss the idea of “no fap” and sex addiction.


1. Margaret Cho is in an open relationship.

2. 10 Year old girl arrested for rape.

3. Teens kill Australian Baseball player “for fun.”

4. The Rise of Minimalist Sex Apps.

5. Gay Sex is illegal in Louisiana.

6. Ariel Castro Accepts Plea of ‘Not Less Than a Thousand Years’.

7. Study Confirms Male Circumcision is Genital Mutilation.

8. War On Words: NYC Dept. Of Education Wants 50 ‘Forbidden’ Words Banned From Standardized Tests.

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Have you ever heard of a “split sex drive,” one seemingly divorced from romance in a peculiar way?

I noticed that when I have romantic feelings for a woman, I  don’t have any sexual interest in her. I don’t think that “sex is dirty” or anything; but I have no sexual interest in girls that I consider worthy of romance.  On the other hand, I do feel sexual interest in other women that I would not want to be in a relationship with. I think it has to do with the fact that  I am surrounded by women I don’t intellectually relate with,  so don’t desire to be in long-term relationships with. I develop “crushes” very slowly and have never really loved someone deeply.  Thus, I think it’s possible that my sex drive has programmed itself to desire these women I wouldn’t want to date because they’re what’s available and I still desire sex.  But this makes me not want to have sex, since there isn’t any long-term prospects for a relationship.

What would you suggest?

Tonight’s Topic: “No Fap” and Sex Addiction

We don’t think “sex addiction” is a real thing (and neither does science). The very paradigm of addiction in sex is harmful for people who are having self-control issues.  Instead, we need to work to integrate sex into our lives in a positive way.

America’s War on Sex – Marty Klein

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A special thanks to Jennifer Snow for editing today’s podcast!

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