I recently had an experience with a different kind of fetish I have never heard of before. This man was turned on by the thought of impregnating women. He would say things during foreplay like: “I want to have babies with you” and “Let’s make a baby” despite that it was a very new relationship. Thoughts?
Question 2:
I listened to the Bisexuality podcast and was wondering if you could you address the concept of being DL (down low) in men. This is when men have a wife, family, etc. but are secretly having gay/same-sex sexual behavior in secret. Do you think most of those men are actually homosexual and trying to hide it and remain closeted, or do you think they are mostly bisexual?
Fun with Words
Candaulism is the enjoyment of sexually exposing one’s female partner to the view of others. The name is a reference to King Candaules from Herodotus’s tale of Gyges (which is substantially different from Plato’s account of the myth of Gyges). In the myth, the king surreptitiously reveals his wife to one of his ministers. The sexual practice, then, is when one partner gains pleasure by showing off his partner, whether in person or imagery, to others, whether with the consent of his or her partner or not.
Summary: Polyamory is having multiple loving and sexual relationships and can be a real value in life that can help you live with integrity and be who you really are, instead of denying your nature and trying to force yourself into culturally approved patterns of relationships.
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Eros and Ethos update: Part 1 is done at 110 single spaced pages and more than 58,000 words! Really excited that it’s coming along. Chapter 8 is almost done and writing is going so much faster now.
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Sex Tips
Todays tip: sex is like pool.
Tonight’s Topic: Infidelity, Cheating, and Relationships
The correct form a relationship should take depends on the relationship, but once you agree to it with your partner, to violate the rules you’ve set out for your relationship is cheating. We firmly believe that monogamy can be a good choice for a couple, but it should be a choice and not simply a default in a species that is not naturally monogamous.
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Can scar tissue create extreme sexual sensitivity?
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Tonight’s Topic: The Limits of Sex-Positivity
Sex positivity, while benevolent, goes astray by being too permissive and failing to have any real standards. The solution is to set a rational standard and apply it to ascertain whether any particular sex act or situation is moral or immoral. This standard has to be a person’s life and long-term happiness.
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A question for you: do you want a “sex tips” feature in the podcast?
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In this episode of the newly relaunched Erosophia Podcast, Jason, William, Devin, and Joia talk about circumcision.
News
1. Rape case in Ohio
2. Kansas’s Strip Clubs
3. Sentencing of the “Cannibal Cop”
Follow-Up Questions
“Do you think that there certain sex acts, or certain aspects of sex acts, that are naturally dominant and submissive? I think there’s an extent to which putting someone’s sex organs in your mouth, or accepting a penis into your anus or between your breasts, or (especially) having someone ejaculate onto your face are acts that are by their very nature submissive acts.
I would be very interested to hear/read more discussion as to whether I am right that acts such as these are by their nature dominant/submissive, and the implications of this on gender roles and sexuality. For example, we know that Ayn Rand’s depiction of heterosexual relationships in her fiction is very focused on a male dominant/female submissive type of relationships, and I know that you do not entirely agree with this idea, but is there anything to be made of the fact that most of the acts I listed above would follow that male dominant/female submissive pattern in a heterosexual relationship?”
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Welcome to the second episode of the Erosophia Podcast!
This is part 2 of 2 (the Q&A) of my recent SoCal Objectivists talk entitled “Love, Sex, Relationships, and Happiness” that I presented on February 11th.I want to thank the SoCal Objectivists for inviting me to talk and Andrew Zey for the audio work and for making the recording sound great.
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