Savage U

by Jason Stotts

I never thought that I might live to see the day that I said MTV has a good show on the air.  Today is, however, that day.  They’ve enlisted Dan Savage, who’s advice on relationships and sex is superb (even if some of his politics are disagreeable), to travel the country to different college campuses, speak, and answer student questions.  The first episode of the show is out now for free and I recommend you take a look. Dan also has a podcast and blog where you can go to find answers to just about any question you can think of, and probably many you’ve never thought of.

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Assorted News

by Jason Stotts

1. A lot of people don’t realize this, but Penn and Teller are Objectivists.  It’s obvious if you ever see their live show (which is fantastic) and even explicitly says so in their program.  The other day I noticed Teller tweet the following:

A big thank you to Jason Crawford for making the website http://freeobjectivistbooks.org/ and to Teller for helping to spread rational ideas.  [P.S. Teller, if you want to help support a book in progress on sexual ethics from the Objectivist perspective, I know a guy!]

2. The first part of my The Objectivist Standard interview with Drs. Ellen Kenner and Ed Locke is now accessible on the TOS website, check it out!  Their new book The Selfish Path to Romance: how to Love with Passion and Reason  is easily the best book about relationships and love out right now. (Please use the Amazon link to purchase it and help support Erosophia!)

3. A behind the scene’s peek into Trojan’s condom factory.  Watch it here.

4. A disgruntled teacher exposes how meaningless grades have become in our public schools.  I completely agree with him that grades are not as important as whether you’re actually learning the material.  Good grades are no substitute for knowledge.

5. Did you know that for some women exercise can lead to orgasms?  Talk about a good reason to go to the gym!

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Review: The Selfish Path to Romance

by Jason Stotts

I don’t do a lot of book reviews here on Erosophia, it’s not because I don’t read much, in fact I read several books a month, but rather that most books that I read while good, are either not worth putting the effort into reviewing or are so horribly mixed that it’s hard to recommend them.  Happily, this is not the case with the new book The Selfish Path to Romance: How to Love with Passion and Reason by Drs. Ellen Kenner and Ed Locke.

I have read a lot of books about love and relationships and it is no exaggeration for me to say that The Selfish Path to Romance is by far the best book I have ever read on these topics.  In most books that I read on relationships and love, I always end up feeling like I’m reading with a hodge-podge of disconnected platitudes and random case study vignettes that seem, at best, tangentially relevant to the author’s points. But that’s very much not the case with The Selfish Path to Romance, which I found to be very consistent and well integrated. It was quite a breath of fresh air to read.

In it, the authors argue that if one doesn’t adopt the rational egoist position in regards to love, sex, and relationships, then  one will end up doing very poorly in these indeed.  Moreover, that by adopting this position, many of the common intractable relationship problems will either not arise or will be easily dealt with.  Ultimately they argue, and I completely agree, that if one wants to live the best kind of life possible, that one must adopt the rational egoist position and think about one’s love life.

If you want to learn more about The Selfish Path to Romance, please check out my interview with authors Dr. Ed Locke and Dr. Ellen Kenner that appears in this edition of The Objective Standard (subscription required).  Also, if you want to help support Erosophia, please use the Amazon links to buy the book so that Erosophia gets the referral credit.  And I do heartily recommend that you buy the book!

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Conclusion to Contra Peikoff on Rape?

by Jason Stotts

It’s easy enough to make mistakes.  It is not so easy, however, to admit it when you do so and act to correct your mistake.  Admirably, Leonard Peikoff has done just that, recanting his earlier position on rape, saying:

I want to correct a significant error I have made in an earlier podcast.  [...] It pertains to the Kobe Bryant case and I said, in effect that given the context the woman implied consent to a sexual and therefore she had no right to say no and expect him to act accordingly, and therefore I concluded he can morally go ahead and have sex with her regardless of her change of mind. [...] Some changes of mind are perfectly moral and some are not.  Nevertheless, they all have the right to refuse and when they do, the man has no right to assert himself forcibly. [...] So, I’m really wrong on this issue, or I was in what I said.

Whenever you make a mistake, you identify what is the basic error you committed, so you don’t commit it again in some other form. I would say my error was to confuse the moral and the legal. [...] It was an example of going by emotion and not clearly understanding what the issue is.

So it seems like Leonard Peikoff has completely recanted and changed his position on rape.  But then he says this:

You know, the way some of these people on the internet talk, if “N-O” comes out of the woman’s mouth, then it’s a monstrous evil is positively ridiculous. I think that the rational line should be genital connection.  If there is relationship involving  the genitals by choice, that is the point at which the woman can no longer say yes [sic - meant to say "no"], I mean otherwise it amounts to in the midst of penile penetration and before the climax she says “no, I don’t want this, I’ve changed my mind.”  I do not regard that “no” as valid. So in this sense I do not agree that every time a woman says no, in any context, no matter with her husband, no matter what the mind or nature of the change, that must be respected, that is simply ridiculous and can’t be enforced.

So, I guess Leonard Peikoff in fact didn’t learn from his mistake at all.  He is still equivocating over the moral and the legal.  Or, perhaps he’s not, he was rambling at the end and it’s not entirely clear what his point is.  Nevertheless, even if his point is that once a woman consents to penetration and it begins, then there is no unconsenting from a legal perspective, we must conclude that this is both right and wrong.  Wrong, because a woman can withdraw consent from the sexual act at any time, making further sex moral rape.  Right, because the legal system is not omniscient and must draw a bright line somewhere.  Even so, whether it should be legally enforceable rape is a different question from whether it is moral rape: it most certainly is.

I also want to agree with Leonard Peikoff that sometimes women are irresponsible in getting themselves in to certain situations.  We might even regard this irresponsibility as a moral failing.  The point at which we might disagree is that I don’t think, even if a woman makes a serious error getting into sexual intercourse, that this justifies the degradation of their person through rape.  The only moral position for the man to take is to stop sex, even once it has begun, if the woman explicitly withdraws consent.  To do otherwise is rape.

Lastly, I thought it was interesting that Peikoff said  ”The very fact that they [a hypothetical couple] are married means that she [the hypothetical wife] has made a commitment to sleep with him and no one else for the rest of her life.  That is, until she gets divorced.”  I wonder whether he would say that Ayn Rand was not married to Frank O’Connor?  If marriage means monogamy, then being non-monogamous means that you’re not actually married.  But Ayn Rand herself slept with another man while she thought she was married to her husband.  Perhaps Leonard Peikoff has surpassed his master on this issue.  I would really like to see his response to this question.  Someone should submit this as a question to him:

Dr. Peikoff, you said on a recent podcast, the one where you apologized for advocating rape, that being married means that the partners in the marriage will not sleep with anyone else.  Did you not think that Ayn Rand was married to Frank O’Connor after her affair with Branden?

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Lesbian Mountain

by Jason Stotts

The female version of Brokeback Mountain just wouldn’t be the same…

 

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The Undercurrent

by Jason Stotts

The new edition of the Undercurrent is out!  Check out their release below.

The newest edition of The Undercurrent is now available to order, and will arrive on your doorstep in the middle of March! In this issue, we will look at issues ranging from the effect of government involvement in education to the recent surge in revolutionary movements.

With regards to the latter, Valery Publius offers an analysis of what makes revolutions desirable and successful, and why movements like Occupy Wall Street are ultimately destined to fail to bring about positive change. Noah Stahl examines the tendency of social and political debaters to focus on superficial aspects of issues, and argues that we need to instead encourage a focus on fundamentals. Nicholas Marquiss asks about education: what is fundamentally important in creating an effective school system? He argues that government involvement, far from being a core necessity for high-quality and widely-available education, is fundamentally destructive to those aims. Finally, Alex Hrin shows why restrictive government policies on energy like cap-and-trade fail to consider just how deeply important energy is to human life.

Place your order here http:/the-undercurrent.com/order/ or e-mail your name, address, and the number of copies you would like to contact@the-undercurrent.com.

The final day to order copies is March 5th, so get yours today!
The Undercurrent is sold at or below cost to print and ship the paper. Here are the prices for the Spring 2012 issue (including shipping and handling):

250 copies $30.00

500 copies $60.00

750 copies $85.00

1000 copies $115.00

1500 copies $165.00

If you would like to hand out copies but cannot afford to do so, please let us know. We may be able to find a donor to sponsor your distribution efforts. Don’t hesitate to send a request by e-mail to: contact@the-undercurrent.com.

On the other hand, if you have no time to distribute, we would greatly appreciate a donation. We’ll use your donations to fund student distributors in your local community or region of the country, or to support deserving distributors in other locations. You can find more information about donating to TU here: http://the-undercurrent.com/donate/, or by e-mailing us at contact@the-undercurrent.com.

Last year was a remarkable year for both TU and Objectivist movement generally. Over 49,000 copies of TU were distributed and over 440,000 copies of Atlas Shrugged were sold in 2011. With your help we hope to do even more in 2012!

Best Regards,

Victoria Genther
victoria@the-undercurrent.com

 

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Assorted News

by Jason Stotts

1. You May be More Transparent than you Think

 One study from Duke University estimated that habits, rather than conscious decision-making, shape 45 percent of the choices we make every day, and recent discoveries have begun to change everything from the way we think about dieting to how doctors conceive treatments for anxiety, depression and addictions. (NYTimes)

Much of our behavior is formulated at a below-conscious level and we are not actively aware of it.  However, new research is letting retailers understand us better than we understand ourselves.  After reading this article, I am definitely going to look more closely into that psychological research and consider how it may factor into ethical analysis.

2. Legalization of Drugs is not only Moral, it’s Practical

Drug warriors often contend that drug use would skyrocket if we were to legalize or decriminalize drugs in the United States. Fortunately, we have a real-world example of the actual effects of ending the violent, expensive War on Drugs and replacing it with a system of treatment for problem users and addicts.

Ten years ago, Portugal decriminalized all drugs. One decade after this unprecedented experiment, drug abuse is down by half. (Forbes)

The proper function of the government is to protect individual rights.  As long as people taking drugs aren’t harming others, then the government should leave them be to make their own choices in life.  Not only that, making them illicit makes people more likely to do them, not less likely.

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Erosophia Podcast #2 Part 2

by Jason Stotts

Welcome to the second episode of the Erosophia Podcast!

This is part 2 of 2 (the Q&A) of my recent SoCal Objectivists talk entitled “Love, Sex, Relationships, and Happiness” that I presented on February 11th.I want to thank the SoCal Objectivists for inviting me to talk and Andrew Zey for the audio work and for making the recording sound great.

If you like the Erosophia podcast, please help support it!  The more support the podcast has, the more likely I am to continue doing it and the more frequently it will come out. You can donate money via the PayPal button on Erosophia, send a PayPal or Amazon payment to Jason(at)JasonStotts.com, or contact me to arrange to send a check or gifts. You can also simply write a nice reviews on your blog or on iTunes.  I could also use a jingle.

If you have questions you want me to address, please leave them as a comment here, email me, or send me a message on facebook or twitter. If you want to contact me, my email is Jason(at)JasonStotts.com.  You can find me on the web at www.JasonStotts.com.  I’m also on twitter: @jstotts.

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Erosophia Podcast #2 Part 1

by Jason Stotts

Welcome to the second episode of the Erosophia Podcast!

This is part 1 of 2 (the main lecture) of my recent SoCal Objectivists talk entitled “Love, Sex, Relationships, and Happiness” that I presented on February 11th.I want to thank the SoCal Objectivists for inviting me to talk and Andrew Zey for the audio work and for making the recording sound great.

If you like the Erosophia podcast, please help support it!  The more support the podcast has, the more likely I am to continue doing it and the more frequently it will come out. You can donate money via the PayPal button on Erosophia, send a PayPal or Amazon payment to Jason(at)JasonStotts.com, or contact me to arrange to send a check or gifts. You can also simply write a nice reviews on your blog or on iTunes.  I could also use a jingle.

If you have questions you want me to address, please leave them as a comment here, email me, or send me a message on facebook or twitter. If you want to contact me, my email is Jason(at)JasonStotts.com.  You can find me on the web at www.JasonStotts.com.  I’m also on twitter: @jstotts.

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Follow-up to Contra Peikoff on Rape

by Jason Stotts

Amy Peikoff has now weighed in on Leonard Peikoff’s statement about rape from his recent podcast and I agree with her assessment.  She also says she finds it interesting that no one has commented on the rest of what he said about rape.  I know that for me, there was no reason to do so, because I agreed with the rest of his analysis.  It is the part where he explicitly says that there are contexts in which rape is permissible that is the problem.  Apparently, he intends to clarify his position in his March 4th podcast and so we shall see then what he actually thinks.  Hopefully, he will recant his position and state unequivocally that he thinks rape is immoral in all contexts.

Now, on to Amy’s final comments about my original post where I said:

I think that Leonard Peikoff has done some great things for Objectivism, he is like a demi-Aquinas, but when he talks about sex and sexual issues, it makes me really sad.  Frankly, his position on rape is both disgraceful and disgusting. I don’t know how anyone of good moral character or intelligence could actually advocate what Peikoff advocated.  It is made much worse because Peikoff is someone I respect and I did not expect him to hold such a reprehensible view of rape.

I want to point out that I said, and maintain, that advocating rape is disgraceful, disgusting, and reprehensible.  This is a statement about a position, not a person. It is true that saying that “no one of good moral character or intelligence could actually advocate rape” is perhaps in poor taste, but I still maintain it.  I hope that Leonard Peikoff will explicitly say that he does not advocate rape at all and then my statement would not encompass him.  There are, however, people who do advocate rape in the world and this statement is intended for them.

The thing is that I have a really hard time not geting emotional about something so serious as rape.  When I analyze ideas, I try to concretize them and look at all of their angles.  Try to concretize rape in your mind.  It should make you furious.  Our emotions are automatic responses to our value judgments and the proper emotional response to someone  advocating rape is anger and revulsion. It is hard for me to elaborate just how terrible I think rape is and how passionately I am against it.

Finally, some people have commented that I make references to Peikoff only in order to increase my traffic or because I like to take “pop-shots.”  These are groundless accusations.  I have made exactly 5 references to Leonard Peikoff in as many years, two negative (“Contra Peikoff on Swinging” and “Contra Peikoff on Rape“), two positives (“Formspring: Puritanical Objectivists” and “Formspring: Sex without Love“), and one recommending his podcast as a good source of information.   So, I’m not sure why people are making that criticism.  I think that Leonard Peikoff has done a lot of good for Objectivism and that he has been the best expositor that Objectivism could have asked for.  Nonetheless, that doesn’t give him license to now advocate rape, even in delimited contexts, and I hope that he will soon make it clear that he does not.

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