Category: Sexuality
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Bisexual Invisibility and Coming Out Bi
by Jason Stotts In a recent column, Dan Savage argues that more bisexuals should come out of the closet so that they can be out in the open as part of society and can live their lives with integrity as who they really are. I fully agree with Dan about this point. All too many…
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Sex Tips #11: Adapt and Overcome
by Jason Stotts When we were young and imagined what sex might be like some day, I’m sure we all imagined that it would go perfectly. That things would just magically happen and everything would just work. However, those of us who have had sex before know that sometimes things don’t go as planned. Sometimes…
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Polyamory is Wrong!
by Jason Stotts I saw this come across the twitter earlier today (via @kellyelmore79) and several people were kind enough to forward it to me as well. I think it’s one of the best things I’ve seen in awhile. I share this etymological worry myself. As I said in “On Polysexuality“: What I am interested in analyzing…
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Sex at Dawn
by Jason Stotts I’ve recommended the book Sex at Dawn a number of times now, both in person and online. It’s a very interesting book about the sexual history of the human species and I think it proves that humans are not naturally monogamous. I highly, and enthusiastically, recommend it, even though it does contain…
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Formspring: Love without Sexual Attraction?
by Jason Stotts Some time ago I received this question via Formspring. Unfortunately, it got lost in the shuffle of getting things ready for ATLOSCon, but I thought it was a good question that deserved an answer. Better late than never, right? Is it still possible to fall in love with someone without being sexually…
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Announcement: Live Speaking
by Jason Stotts After having such a good time speaking at ATLOSCon, I’ve decided that I’m going to start doing more live speaking engagements! Honestly, I need some more work to be a really great public speaker in terms of my presentation and speaking skills, but the content is already there and I have no…
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Sex Tips #10: Buy in Bulk
by Jason Stotts Buying in bulk, buying a larger quantity than you immediately need in order to get a per-unit discount, is a very good method for saving money in general and sex is no exception. Condoms and lube can be expensive, but if you buy them in bulk through places like Amazon, you can…
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Australia and the Hatred of Sex
by Jason Stotts Australia is in the news again as they continue to become more anti-sex and move to censorship in an attempt to suppress information in their country. After their China-esque firewall (see “Australia Following China’s Lead?“) failed, they’ve now pressured ISP’s to do the blocking themselves: Starting next month, the vast majority of…